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"If you want to build a ship, don't drum up people to collect wood and don't assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea."
More than teaching or coaching, the goal of spiritual direction is to invite you to "long for" the spiritual. Together we will create space to slow down, listen, and notice where movement is happening in your life.
This work is for people who:
are wondering about their sense of calling, direction, or purpose
are navigating a decision point or season of discernment
feel drawn to ask deeper questions about where they’re headed
want to grow in awareness of what’s stirring, shifting, or being invited in their lives
are seeking a grounded, attentive space to reflect without pressure or performance
Spiritual direction offers a place to pay attention; to God, to your own interior life, and to the patterns and movements that shape your days.
how we'll meet
Spiritual direction follows a simple rhythm: we meet once a month for about an hour, typically over video (or in-person when geography allows).
You don’t need to prepare anything in advance. Just bring whatever feels present — a decision, a transition, a question, or simply a desire to pay closer attention to your life.
Our time is less about solving and more about noticing. Together, we create space to listen to the Holy Spirit for where there may already be movement, invitation, or emerging clarity.
This is meant to be steady but unhurried time to reflect without pressure to perform or produce. As such, I recommend you set aside time before we meet (to begin to settle into awareness) and after (to continue in presence to yourself).
my path to spiritual direction
While I was raised in a religious setting, it wasn't until late in my spiritual journey that I found God inviting me to meet together through the practices of attentiveness, silence, and simplicity. I have met with a spiritual director for the last 7 years and have felt my soul become ever deeper and fuller.
My offering as a spiritual director is rooted in God's own wooing of my soul, and also my experience in pastoral counseling, psychotherepy, sexuality, and my history as a third culture kid growing up abroad. This range of history means that can appriciate the nuance of a wide range of backgrounds and baggage. Please feel no need to present in some polished way! I come from a messy and surprising background, and there is freedom for you to as well.
I am currently receiving additional training and supervision in Christian Spiritual Direction as part of the Leadership Transformations’ Selah Certificate Program which will continue to deepen my offering as a director.
frequently asked questions
What is Spiritual Direction?
"Spiritual direction is the name given to a particular kind of helping relationship whose primary objective is to discern how God is inviting someone to be, to live, to appreciate, and to act in the midst of life."
What’s the difference between spiritual direction and therapy?
Therapy often focuses on healing, mental health, and clinical support. Spiritual direction is more spacious and reflective and is oriented toward awareness, discernment, and how you are living your life. It is not a substitute for therapy and is less goal/objective oriented.
Do I need to be religious or Christian?
Not at all. Many people come with an existing faith framework, while others simply want a thoughtful space to reflect on direction, meaning, and the deeper currents of their life. Curiosity is enough.
What if I’m not sure this is what I need?
That’s very normal. We can start with a simple conversation to see whether it feels like a good fit — no pressure to continue if it doesn’t.
How often will we meet?
Most people find a monthly rhythm both grounding and sustainable, but we can adjust if needed.
How long do people typically continue?
Many people begin with a few months and then discern what feels right. Some stay for a season of transition; others continue longer. There’s no expectation either way.
Is this connected to your consulting work?
No. Spiritual direction is a separate practice and is never required or bundled with consulting. The two remain intentionally distinct, but both part of my journey and passion.
Does spiritual direction cost money?
My relationship to directees is a ministry one, not a client one, so I do not charge a set fee. You may follow whatever kind of financial offering best fits your desire and abilities. Let your sense of the Holy Spirit’s freedom be your guide know that there is genuinly no expectation from me!
an invitation
Want to go deeper? Simply schedule a time below and we can sense where you are at together.
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